Whispers
by Emma Freeman
When someone whispers something to me
I can’t understand what they are saying
watching their lips as I try to make out the message
what I hear is mostly a murmur
indecipherable words meant to create intimacy
whispers now make me feel like I’ve suddenly
drifted a thousand miles away from someone
leaving me feeling frustrated and embarrassed
Something seemingly so simple
hearing someone speak
that I took for granted for many years
now often takes conscious effort
In order to hear now
I have to tune in with my whole being
fully focusing on the person in front of me
watching their face and listening to their body’s language
I turn on subtitles so I can read the words as mouths move
and wear tiny amplifiers inside those tender tunnels in my head
It seems that as my hearing has softened
I have been called to notice so much more in every word now
in the ones spoken and unspoken
As I’m listening to someone
or to my mind telling me its stories
a word or a phrase will suddenly jump out
and I feel drawn to feel through its subtle textures
around its curves and edges
as if I just picked up an unexpected something
while out walking along a familiar road somewhere
It seems I am able to hear more in the quiet now too
as if the silent world’s volume turned up
as the noisy world’s volume turned down
And now I can listen with my hands
when they move across the surface of someone’s skin
or hold a piece of old cloth
messages seem to come through from somewhere
messages full of light and dark
of tenderness and memory
of questions and more questions
they silently speak to me
as if my hands
as if my whole body is all ears now…